Doing the same thing in the same way over and over again and expecting different results is a futile effort. Doing the same thing means repeating the same mistakes over and over again. This certainly does not mean that you have to change your mission and vision
, have to change your goals
, or change your destination. It simply means that you need to change your plan and strategy.
A game changer may be a person, a thing, or a big decision, or a thought
that significantly affects the outcome of your life. The game changer has a big and vital impact on your life usually creating a big difference in results between the present and future.
Suppose an important football match is going on, two strong teams are continuously attacking each other, 90 minutes have passed without yielding any result, at that time the coach of one team decides and substitutes a player who will play the remaining extra time. As soon as the extra player entered into the field and scored a goal, the result of the game was decided. Here, no doubt
the player is the game changer but behind this game-changing decision of the coach is vital. 22 players were already on the field but a player on the reserve bench who played only for a few minutes in extra time changed the context of the match dramatically as a game changer.
We can compare the different phases of our life with different games, sometimes we win in this game, sometimes we learn a lot, and sometimes we get stuck at a stage from which we cannot get out. At the stages of life when this happens, there is a need for a game changer in life and this game changer can be you or an important decision of you.
Through coaching and training, I have met many people whose lives have taken a dramatic turn for a single decision or creative thought, some of them who have gone from ultimate adversity
to pinnacle success
I have seen many people who years after years of hard-working could not improve their results decided to end their lives due to depression. Even in such extremely negative situations
some important words or meta-questions that change their mind
or thought processes become the game changer in their lives.
Remember there is never and never will be any shortage of games and players even skilled players in this world, but the player who can change the game at any given moment is worthy of them.
Similarly, in this light-dark game of life, you may become valuable to this society, this world, and able to achieve success, when you be the game changer of your own life.
when you need to become your own game changer:
Let’s find out when this game changer is needed in life or when you need to become your own game changer.
People always seeking results. It depressed mentally if something does not produce a certain result. Even if the result is not as desired, our mind is at least somewhat satisfied to keep itself busy with what the next step can be to achieve the desired result. But the monotony in normal life makes people impatient, distracted, and frustrated, and from there anxiety
and depression start. If you take a closer look, you will realize that boredom is not something we like, whether it is our favorite food or our favorite life. There are times in our lives when we feel like that nothing is going right, things aren’t working out according to plan, and moments like these require a game changer to change the course of life completely.
Who will be the game changer in your life?
The question comes to mind as to what or who can emerge as a game changer in our lives. Our subconscious mind
is very powerful, it has all the resources to recover us from any situation or turn our lives around, but of course, if you consciously take responsibility
for following the conventional ways then the great power of the subconscious mind will give way, because no matter how much power the subconscious mind has but the power of control is with the conscious mind.
When we are directly involved in something, it becomes very difficult to think differently or make a decision in that situation, even simple solutions are overlooked. You will see how easily you can give good advice to your friend or relative when he is in danger, and how easy it is to act as a game changer, but you cannot find a way to solve it when you are in the same danger or difficulty.
Why does this happen? Why being a game changer in your own life is complicated? Actually here the ‘association’ or ‘disassociation’ is the matter. Regarding your friend or your relative you are an observer, as an observer you will have no fear
, negative thoughts will be less, confidence
will be different, your mindset
will be positive, and ultimately you are in a more resourceful state than them, so your presence of mind
also works very well and you are able to find solutions very easily. If you can disassociate from the events of your life then you can play the role of a game changer in your life.
Now the question is how to disassociate from the events of your own life? This is where you have to harness the power of your subconscious mind, harness the power of imagination. You have to sit very coolly, calmly, and quietly and imagine that something bad is happening to your second form and that you are observing everything as an observer. After realizing disassociating from the whole thing advise your second version on how it can be solved. You can also put someone else in your place and think about what you are experiencing about what is happening in his life, now spread your helping hand and make decisions for him, this decision may be the game changer of your life.
The Game changers change things in a totally different way, dramatically. They’re the dragoman we look up to, learn from, and get inspired by.
So when you hit the rock bottom in your life, it’s time to gather up all your intrinsic motivation
and change the game and make a significant transformation in your life. You are here to be a game changer. You have the purpose and so many resources to contribute to the world.
Now think about if you are here only to play the game or to change it!